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I met my husband about 6 years ago and we got pregnant about a year into our relationship. He is 4 now and such an amazing kid! We have been struggling to have a successful pregnancy for 2 years now, with 4 miscarriages all in the first tri-mester

What does it all mean??

TTC= trying to conceive

BBT= basal body temperature

HPT= home pregnancy test

OPK= ovulation predictor kit

BFP= big fat positive (what we want!)

BFN= big fat negative (what we loathe...)




What's been going on?

Dec 2004: Met Derek at a friends birthday dinner (and didn't like him lol!)

Feb 2006: Conceived Owen by surprise

Sept 22, 2006: Derek and I got married

Nov 6, 2006: Owen was born!

Nov 2008: Decide to TTC for #2

Jan 2009: Longest cycle ever, take HPT and got a BFP. Go to dr and find out we're mid miscarriage

May 2009: BFP!

June 2009: Go to DR for first OB appointment to find no heartbeat, off to hospital for D&C. Told to wait 3 months before TTC again

Dec 2009: BFP and one week later start bleeding, miscarriage #3

Jan 2010: Go in to see DR, check blood and all organs working well, and ovulating well.

April 2010: Another BFP. About a week later start bleeding again, miscarriage #4.

May 2010: Talk to my DR, has me wait 6 months before TTC again.

Sept 2010: Go to follow up with DR, has me start taking prenatal vitamins, baby asprin and progesterone 48 hours after ovulation (to take until my cycle starts, or reach 13 weeks in a pregnancy)

March 7th 2011: BFP!!!!! (over the next few days I ended up taking 4 tests to be for sure positive)

April 4th 2011: First OB appointment... saw lil baby on ultrasound and STRONG heartbeat of 175 bpm.

June 27th 2011: Second ultrasound, we're having a lil boy!

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Thursday, June 30, 2011

This little man has a name!

Ryken Spencer Patsey

This name was on the top of my list. It took Derek some getting used to, but he really likes it and we decided it should be baby boy's name! I heard the name Ryken years ago... I can't even tell you where because, frankly I don't remember. And Spencer is Derek's mom's maiden name (Derek was born Derek Spencer until his parents married). Naming him felt a lot harder than naming Owen. It was easy with Owen and with Ryken, it felt so weird... like I was hoping I wasn't doing the wrong thing. Everything is so different the second time around!

Monday, June 27, 2011

it's a.....


BOY!!!!!

We're so excited! Neither Derek or I had a preference so we're just excited he's healthy and from what the ultrasound looks like doing quite well and is active. We will get our official results from the radiologist on how the ultrasound looks tomorrow. I'm praying that everything is as good as it seemed to me.

He's measuring about a week ahead of schedule, so they might be changing my due date... which would put his due date right about Owen's 5th birthday. That idea stresses me out! Oh well, we will deal with whatever God puts in front of us ;] Oh, and stay tuned on a name... we've got one we like, but want to have it set in stone before we announce it!

Tuesday, June 21, 2011

19 weeks


Your Baby: Week 19

Vernix caseosa, a greasy white substance made of lanugo, oil and dead skin cells (yum) now coats baby's skin, shielding it from the amniotic fluid. (Picture yourself after a nine-month bath, and the need for protection makes sense.) You might actually get to see the vernix at birth, especially if baby is premature.

This past week has been pretty eventful as far as baby goes... lots of kicks have been felt! Only by me though. I'm finally feeling some kicking. Mostly at night when I lay on my back before rolling over to sleep. I even felt the baby on the outside... that was weird! I forgot how it felt and how weird it felt to feel a baby from the outside and inside. It's also reassuring feeling it move... I'm not as paranoid about our next appointment because I can feel that it's doing just fine. 6 more days til we find out what we're having!

Thursday, June 16, 2011

cravings...

Just like every other pregnant woman... I've had cravings. At first it was tomato soup, egg mcmuffins and orange juice. Now, I have some cravings that aren't so good for me (not that the others were the best diet, but far better than these...)

Totino's Pizza's
Yes, the bottom of the frozen pizza barrel. You can buy these suckers for $1. I crave them... they're horribly not nutritious.




Sour Punch Bites
These were a craving of mine while pregnant with Owen, but this time I've tried to keep myself from the candy aisle. I don't need to be gaining 40 pounds this pregnancy Adding to the pizza with a sour dessert will only speed up the weight gaining process.
Why can't I be one of those girls who craves fruits, veggies and lean meats?? Grrr... I am hating my super unhealthy cravings and have been trying to offset them with nice long walks. I wish it were long jogs, but my hip is not allowing me to run :( I miss running... I read a blog basically profiling this mom's journey to a marathon starting at square one. It made me want to set a goal for post-baby. There is a 5k I do every year at the end of February... I'm going to run that again. As soon as my dr gives me the thumbs up for exercise, I'm running!

Tuesday, June 14, 2011

18 weeks


Your Baby: Week 18

Your fetus has become amazingly mobile (at least compared to you), passing the hours yawning, hiccuping, rolling, twisting, kicking, punching, sucking and swallowing. And, baby's finally big enough that you'll be able to feel those movements soon.

I'm getting increasingly anxious for our ultrasound on the 27th. Officially 13 days left! I can't wait to know what this baby is and give it a name. I hate just calling it "the baby", it's a person and needs an identity. We will have that crazy discussion of names after we find out ;] Owen insists it is a girl and has the WHOLE time! I'm ok with either, but I think a boy would be more financially friendly ;] Girls have so much cute stuff to buy and with my niece who isn't even her yet, I could go broke buying her stuff... I make myself stay away from the baby aisle. So, we will see. I'm feeling pretty good still. The last few nights I've been up again for about 2 hours... last night it was hard to want to move into a comfy position, cause the way I was laying I could feel baby moving a little bit. Very nice to feel...

Tuesday, June 7, 2011

Week 17



Your Baby: Week 17

Baby's skeleton is hardening, changing from rubbery cartilage to bone, and fat is finally accumulating around it. The umbilical cord is getting thicker and stronger, and those little fingers and toes are now topped by one-of-a-kind prints.

Well, not much going on these days. I'm still feeling really good... just fat! I'm so at that in between phase where I can't fit into my old clothes (mostly pants and skirts unless they're super stretchy) and the "maternity" clothes I have make me look like a frump. It's very frustrating. I had 2 showers yesterday and must've tried on 6 different outfits trying to look presentable. I've got a couple pair of maternity jeans that I love, but I wanted to look nice at the showers so there is where I hit a wall. Just felt icky. On a more exciting note, I'm feeling the baby move! Just little flutters here and there, but I can definitely tell it's moving! 3 more weeks until we know if it's a boy or girl and then Derek and I can start discussing names!